Five steps tosomeone who fits.
Aligned front-loads the work. You set it up once, and from then on Alia and your AI do the filtering — so the people who reach you have already cleared the bar.
Brief it like
a friend.
Amara, 3134 alignWants kids in the next few years. Same city, same pace.01
Brief Alia, your matchmaker
Tell her who you're looking for the way you'd tell a friend with good taste — “someone thoughtful”, “long-term, no games”, “a bit older”. She searches while you get on with your life, and only comes back when she has someone worth the interruption. Refine her in plain words any time — typed, or out loud on a call with her.
One person.
All of them.
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Meet one person at a time
One whole person at a time — their face, their words, and Alia's read on what aligns between you and what doesn't. Everyone here wants the same thing: monogamous, long-term, serious.
Meet
Alia.
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Train your AI
Answer Alia's questions, typed or spoken, and what you teach her becomes an AI that answers in your voice. Open “What I know about you” to read, edit, make private or delete any of it — as a list or a map. Mark a fact private and it genuinely forgets it for everyone else.
Ask their AI
anything.
ok so what's your actual read on long distance
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They run an AI Vibe Check
Before anyone matches with you, they can talk to your AI. Ask it anything. It answers the way you would — and when it doesn't know something, it says so and sends the question back to you to answer yourself.
Ask them out
properly.
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Open Date
Skip the small talk. Send a real invitation: a day, a time, a place, and why it's worth saying yes. It arrives as the first thing in your chat if they accept.
